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Few parents can think of a greater computer scourge nowadays than video games. Not the sex and violence so much as the huge amount of time it robs from everything else. Victims include books, playing outdoors, family time, homework, and much more, but the most tragic victim may be the imagination I admire most in kids. Video games present canned simulations where scenarios, weapons, and objectives vary, but the software limits the player to a structure much more limited than the child's imagination. Within those boundaries, a child repeats exercises over and over to gain proficiency, like a mouse gaining experience running a maze.
Of course there are video games that teach, including the historical simulation games like Civilization IV, but we parents look over our kids shoulder, and we know the threat of addiction to a mindless waste of time is real. So we either maintain our status as the "No" person, or we look for alternatives. With a bit of effort, we look to replace wasted time with time of value. We can pitch a hike in the woods, a chess game, and many other options if we reach back to the imagination we had as kids. For chess, we need only plant the seed, nurture it a bit, and it will stay with our kids forever -- popping up repeatedly to stimulate minds deadened by video games. |
A truism parents know is that our kids will become their friends. That is why we are always on the lookout to engage them with good friends, and to help them become good friends themselves. A giant chess set sits in the yard or a regular one on the coffee table as a statement that intellectual pursuits are welcome, in fact, are quietly invited. The chess set attracts a different kind of friend than certain rock band posters. I want Joe Sixpack to feel uncomfortable in our home.
When my daughter finds such an invitation at a play date's home, it's important that she is past the ego threat. I want her to be comfortable asking, "So you play chess, too?" After she has a family of her own, the chess set will continue to serve as a special kind of decoration, a statement of the kind of friend she likes to sit down with. It will be a symbol of the type of mother, wife, and person she is. ![]() |
Pop Quiz: What activity does grandpa and his grandson enjoy together? If you eliminate visits and dinners, which can be more obligatory than fun, a surprisingly short list remains. Junior doesn't like golf, and grandpa doesn't much care for paintball. If you can't guess the answer, here's some trivia. Far more kids learn chess from their grandfather than their dad. Dad is busy in the fast lane earning a living. As dinner with grandpa isn't about getting food as much as an excuse to be with him, so too chess isn't so much about playing a game as providing a forum -- a forum where the side chatter can wander to all the topics worth discussing.
Grandpa's wisdom can show a clever chess opening, but also shed some light on life's many other mysteries. Chess converts a series of old-people lectures into the thoughtful banter woven into a chess game. ![]() |
Inner city teenagers hanging on a street corner, we all know where that leads. As oldsters, we wonder why they can't find something better to do with themselves. We think of how easy it is for our kids to go out for dinner, spend the weekend in the mountains, or at least whip out a Gameboy. What we don't realize is that those inner city teens are not our privileged kids. They don't have Gameboys. Sometimes, they can't even afford batteries. What they can always afford is a $5 drug-store chess set. It takes 20 years to wear out and doesn't require batteries. But chess is much more than just harmless recreation. Because it is an affordable choice for many poor kids, some of them get rather good at it. Watching a black kid from Compton hold his own in a chess tournament in upscale Orange County is a thrilling sight. The surprise on the faces as the white kid with the straight teeth and tweed jacket lays his king down.
"Checkmate", says the kid from Compton in a voice quiet so as not to offend. But the declaration is as loud as a drum roll, and loud enough to get back to Compton. The leap in self esteem can spread that far. More important even than Tiger Woods breaking into golf, chess can show inner city teens that they are as smart as anyone, that they too can achieve greatness. ![]() |
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